The Attributes of Gummy Bears
(This was written in response to a friend whose Mom was having an elective surgery from a position of fearfulness)....
Fear can do alot of damage and it is really hard to not be able to reach someone you love....
I just had a revelation the other day that helped me greatly with the frustration over my Mom's impending hip surgery.....I
feel like we are all in a penny candy store (my revelations are always a food simile ) but like a Walmart in Georgias versus one in Paramus, not all the stores stock the same candy, but they all have candy....
So her store stocks gummy bears but doesn't have swedish fish but, yours has both swedish fish and gummy bears... clearly swedish fish are a favorite but if she has never had them, it is hard for her to understand how good they are, and to desire them... for you it is something you have always known and understand....
You have more candy choices and resources perhaps to bring to bear in a situation than she does, but it is ok because she is using the resources she has to the best of her ability....No judgements here....She is using the resources in her
store....I had a lot of frustration about my Mom's impending elective surgery as well because like
yours she set up this situation to happen but she doesn't have swedish fish in her store, she can't see what we see, she can't trust or believe or have the faith that we have....her store at this time doesn't stock the things
that help us to trust and have faith, the things that keep fear in check....But her store could change stock at any time...Have faith that when the person you love is ready to shift they will....
The way people learn about new products/ways of being, is to see it in other stores/people and then desiring
those thngs....
So keep showing your light and stay positive and fearless, this will help more than being scared for her ...Being fearful right along with the people you love doesn't help them at all...If you are in the trenches with them you can't help them....Positve thoughts and intentions have tremendous power and helps you be strong and centered at the same time...And wouldn't you like to be proved wrong this one time and have this situation turn out well instead of being right when you predicted a negative outcome??? This helped me, I hope it helps you....Be present in your own light...
Love,
Glenys
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